Perfect Mistakes

From the Oxford dictionary: Perfectionist:  a person who refuses to accept any standard short of perfection. The definition of perfectionist implies that your life is perfect if you are a perfectionist.  That is not the case.  Perfectionists are often the worst...

Gratitude, and what we want.

Lets take some time to consider our wants.  Wants can be as simple as an urge, “I want that cookie”.   Or they can be deep and meaningful such as “I want life to have purpose”.  You know that humans are wired to have wants,...

Moving Forward from Stuck

I want you to think of a goal you have, or that your boss has given you, or that you think you should do, which you are stuck on. Just pick one. Are you thinking “this is impossible”, “I don’t know how to get started”, “I’ve...

Work Hard vs. Work Well

You know the value of hard work. Everyone tells you working hard is what you want and need to do. They’re not wrong. I don’t always do it. “Work hard to get what you want.””Work hard or you wont succeed.””Wow he is a really...

Do you have the downtime you want?

Lets talk about downtime.  Do you think you can take all the downtime you want?I know that can feel impossible.  You might be thinking, “My schedule is already packed full!  I have so many commitments, I can’t have the downtime I want without declining or...